Morethantwo is superbly written and gives reasoned and thoughtfull insight as to whether or not this path is workable for some and not for others. Once again LR, thankyou so much for the feedback and direction.
I do know that if the topic come's up again, from my perspective there will be the benefit of a greater understanding on the subject and the 'realities'. I think it's sad if one partner cannot not feel secure enough to express their desires with the other and I would want my GF to express her's and feel comfortable about doing so. This has really helped.