One of the things I love about people who identify as poly is their seemingly open-ended approach to what feelings are or could be - your post is a perfect examples of that GG
For me, I have this rather B/W mentaility - and as we all know, the world is as we percieve it to be.
I guess I think that he and I have fouhgt some tough battles to arrive at the point we are at and dialling that down to a 'friendship' is difficult for me to conceptualise ... I need to think on this.
*** I have chickened out of making a decision tonight, I have spent the evening engrossed in a bottle of Absolut and pretenting that I am asexual .. it's working .. kinda ..
Thanks for the response