Originally Posted by RainyGrlJenny
This is what would freak me out the most. Taking sexual videos without obtaining consent is, in my opinion, abusive. To me, the cheating part is much less significant than the idea that someone felt their sexual desires were more important than their partners' rights to privacy and consent over their own bodies.
Personally, I could probably deal with the cheating issues, but it would be difficult to ever trust someone who violated his/her partners in such a way.
RainyGrlJenny,that was exactly what I thought when I found out about this. Followed by, "how many times did he do this? Did he make videos of K and I as well?"