OK Cupid is the best dating site. As a woman, I have had successes there, and am in 2 long term relationships besides the more casual things I have had.
Just to clarify, you do not insist on watching Shaz with one of her potential FWBs/playpartners? She is free to date on her own? Because if you need to be there while she's getting laid, she'll have a harder time finding a decent gf or bf. Just sayin.'
Another thing to consider. She thinks *now* she just wants something casual, but what if feelings arise!? What if she and/or her partner fall in love? That is always a big possibility.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. --Shaw
me: Mags, female, pansexual, poly, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, poly, 37