Yeah, I don't know how people deal with long distance relationships, especially ones that have started out long distance, instead of being together initially and then one partner moving away temporarily for work/military service, or school.
How does one do it? You want to be primaries, but he can't/won't move for another year, and yet he seems interested in having local gfs/fuck buddies. NRE could well kick in and suddenly he and she are spending time together every day. Yuck. Where does that leave you, hanging on the telephone line? Bleh.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 58, living with:
miss pixi, 37, who is dating (NRE):
my bf: Ginger, 61, married to:
Robin, 60 (mono)
and dating (NRE): Carla and David, married couple, early 40s