ThatGirlInGray: Yes, we will absolutely be taking turns with our son, so a night off, regardless of how you spend it, is really a night OFF.
Good question. Thanks.
I hear you with the giving him more time, and though there might be times that is hard for me, I definitely want to be fair.
We will obviously see more of each other just because we share a home. So a night a week for his other girlfriends definitely isnt unreasonable...