YouAreHere: Thank you for your reply. Sorry it took so long to get back to you, I was in a car accident & then almost immediately out of town for my wee ones birthday. Correct me if I am wrong, but it sounds like, like me, you are just with one partner? Do you mind my asking you more about that? Let me know and let me know if you would prefer a PM over the forum?
Thanks SO much!
"If you love a flower, don't pick it up. Because if you pick it up it dies & it ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation." -Osho