listening to everyone, and i can be optimistically naive, ... lets side with optimistically naive.
she knows hubby is with you, and she doesn't like to share, if she's going to want hubby all to herself, she's going to want him more and more, no respect for boundaries despite her saying she doesn't want to break you up.
if she can calm down and let things fall into a natural balance of hubbies time for you, then "doesn't like to share" means things could work out, but she's going to have major serious issues if hubby even thinks about someone else (other than you two)
the second would be my hope, ... but i'd rather see things work out instead of being skeptical or walk away.
as i think about it, ... even optimistically, i'm not going to expect things to last for any significant length of time
Last edited by Flear; 07-29-2013 at 06:52 PM.