Uhhh, sorry but I would just state, as firmly as possible, that you don't believe in relationships where you are REQUIRED to have X number of like interests. You prefer to be yourself. I can't even imagine insisting on someone doing something with me. I like to do certain things that hubby doesn't, so hubby doesn't do them. If boyfriend does like to do them with me then he will. There are things I like to do that NEITHER of them likes to do, so I do them alone!
Example: I went to visit boyfriend for the first time, it was his city I hadn't been there before. There were things he really wanted to show me. Some of them, not interesting to me at all, so we skipped them. I am really kind of confused how dating someone requires them to do ALL the interests I decide they should.
Me: Late 30s pansexual poly.
DH: My husband of 19 yrs and father of 3 teen girls.
DC: LDR of +4 year