Originally Posted by jlbrickler
the right to influence this relationship is very much mine considering that I am his wife and a much more permanent part of his life.
That staement really makes me shake my head. Personally you really need to rethink that and start some honest communication with both of them if that is your attitude.,
Sorry but I wouldnt want to be in a relationship with you both if I were her, does she know that is what you think?