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Old 07-29-2013, 01:45 AM
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Originally Posted by jlbrickler View Post
. . . she is already asking about kissing me and telling me she misses me when I have only actually met her once . . .
That is WEIRD! WTF? She sounds like a nut job. I wouldn't have gone out with them, either - geez!

I don't think I've read your intro, but does your husband expect you to be involved with her, too? After revealing an infidelity, you're all supposed to be happy-go-lucky-let's-jump-in-the-sack? Are you even into women at all? Has your husband made any attempts to work toward earning back your trust? If not, why not, and are you asking for what you need?
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