I think maybe you're reading back into when I was with L? Or am I misreading your reply?
I don't think E has any specific amount of time set aside to see this woman (call her D). I don't find myself bothered by the amount of time either like I was with L and his sub. I think I am more worried about how it will affect our budding relationship than anything else.
Me: 32 year old poly pansexual Dominant female, married to Mark (married 10 years) who has FWBs. Dating Jennifer, 5 months, and Henry, 4 months.