Originally Posted by FullofLove1052
You could be right. I believe poly works for a lifetime for some and seasons for others.
I think you may be more right than you realize. In the early stages of our relationship (mine and husbands) we were mono and we both said no way to anything else. We felt it would be cheating and that would be grounds for divorce.
Fast forward 20 years, and after raising 3 wonderful children, our priorities have changed and we feel we have more love to offer. We have more time on our hands as well seeing now that the children have grown.
Life is all about reassessing the situation as time goes on and seeing what works and what doesn't.