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Old 07-27-2013, 05:47 PM
Ariakas Ariakas is offline
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Originally Posted by redpepper View Post
My mind is beginning to come alive again in so many ways. I'm so excited! I'm shedding the bogged down word poly and accepting that each relationship I have is an entity all it's own.
Damn Straight

There is no need for any label when there is opportunity to discover each relationship I have with everyone. Poly has created options for me, but it's not the only one. If the shoe fits, wear it and forget about having to wear the coat of a self imposed methodology that just doesn't work for some relationships.
Well said and exactly what happened to me. Poly is simply the option of loving more than one, the relationships and their structures are separate from that. Makes life (mine at least) much easier and a lot less cluttered with junk.

I'm so glad I doscovered this for myself before losing my relationship with mono mearly due to my stubborn insistance that I HAVE TO BE POLY. No I don't. I don't have to at all. I can and maybe will with others one day but I don't have to. Yay choice!
Congrats RP.. Truely.. Keep in simple and life will be much clearer.
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