Originally Posted by Seasnail
Yeah, last weekend HB and I sat down to revise our boundaries too... we ended up making a flow chart for the process we envisioned instead of generating rules or boundaries. I think that helped a lot because HB can feel some flexibility in meeting someone, and yet I have this sense that I can reasonably predict what might happen, and that gives me a sense of peace.
I'd love to see an example of the flowchart idea! I'm collecting ideas like that. Is there a way you could redraw it (without personal details) easily? Maybe scan it and put it on here? that would be exciting to see!!