Originally Posted by Monogamish
I want a serious answer, here, because I can't think of a reason that doesn't stem from insecurity/control issues, but maybe there is one.
Red flag is right. Veto can only mean a couple of things:
1. I don't trust you because you are a child and cannot survive without my direct supervision
2. I am insecure and need to feel the illusion of power over your life in order to deal with my personal issues
None of this is fertile ground for having an adult intimate relationship.
Are you planning on giving it a chance?