There is no way I would tolerate that rule.
I couldn't imagine getting all into things on the spur of the moment then having to stop while he had to call his wife ask ask permission to have sex. What a mood killer.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.