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Old 07-25-2013, 04:02 PM
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Thanks for the clarification - I wasn't sure if you meant that a metamour's time constraints were impacting your relationship, but this sounds much different.

I may be mono, but isn't part of having a poly relationship embracing the variety and differences among your paramours? If my partner doesn't like camping, I could theoretically date someone else who DOES like it. I don't see the point in asking everyone to fit the same mold.
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