Originally Posted by Flear
Infinite, ... the alternative is to walk away so you can be around what your comfortable with and the other person can continue to be themselves.
Isn't this the "or else I'll stop wanting to be with you" part of your initial question?
Okay, not really, as the original question was formed as an ultimatum ("You stop doing this or I'll leave!") rather than a statement of limitation ("I can't tolerate this. I'm leaving if it continues."), but the outcome is still the same.
Mono. Divorced, two kids (DanceGirl, 13; and PokéGirl, 11), two cats, one house, many projects.
My partner. Poly. In relationships with me, Xena, and Noa.
Poly. In relationships with Chops and Noa, and dating others.
Married, Poly. In relationships with Chops and Xena (individually).
Blog thread: A Mono's Journey Into Poly-Land (or, "Aw hell, there's no road map?!")
Slightly more polished blog with a mono/poly focus: From Baltic to Boardwalk