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Old 07-21-2013, 03:52 PM
northhome northhome is offline
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Originally Posted by Darknight View Post
No we didn't have clear agreements at the all just sort of happened. Its something we didnt really think of.

I think we were just a bit naieve which is sad to say.
We're all human, and love and sex trigger very powerful emotions. It's very hard to keep a cool head when the hormones are raging.

As the saying goes, hindsight is 20/20. Cut yourself a bit of slack and try not to be so hard on yourself. The real question is - how to move forward?

Originally Posted by Darknight View Post
And no we had no idea that she had a different agenda. Was her agenda to steal me away? But she new i would not be happy if that happened.
Ah yes, but her happiness may have come first in her world

Originally Posted by Darknight View Post
I dont think we can sit down.
Fair enough, but if she's involved in your business as well this can all get very sticky. Do you have a friend that you trust to act as an impartial mediator?

Look after yourself. It's easy to make rash decisions at such a time, so you might want to practice counting to 10 before making any major moves.
Compassionate toward yourself, you reconcile all beings in the world.

- Tao Te Ching
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