Originally Posted by Darknight
Now things are all in ruins, jealousy took its toll in the end.
I'm sorry to hear that. Sounds like a very unpleasant situation.
Did you (three) have clear agreements from the beginning? Or did this all just sort of happen? It sounds like your (ex) friend possibly had a different agenda than you and your partner. Did you have any idea this was the case?
Do you have any way to sit down and talk things through without getting upset?
It's hard to sort things out when emotions are running high. Finding a way to regain your balance (which is what it sounds like your wife is trying to do) makes sense.