Just when I thought I was all alone. Thanks for posting:-)
I am in a similar situation. I am mono. When I discovered this board, I thought I might try poly out and be in multiple relationships. As it turns out, I'm a one guy type of girl. I have major issues with my boyfriend's primary. I've come to despise the idea of primaries and secondaries.
When I agreed to go down this path with my boyfriend, I had this idea that I would be part of a tribe and all the metamours would be on "equal" footing. That is definitely NOT the case.
At any rate, like you, I've been putzing around starting a blog. Maybe I can share yours :-) ? Maybe?