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Old 07-17-2013, 12:40 AM
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I don't think silence is the solution.
I also don't think it's part of acceptance.

Accepting means being open to either answer when you inquire.

Example:

"I miss xyz with you. I would like to resume doing that. Is this something you are interested in doing too?"

The answer could be
YES! I can't believe I've been so busy.
or
I suppose so.
or
HELL NO I am so sick of that.

Acceptance means understanding and being ok with the fact that any of these answers could follow your question.

It's not a matter of saying YOU are ok with the situation. But-if you aren't ok with the situation-then it's on you to move on.
If you bring it up and you both want a change in simiarl directions, GREAT!
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