My closest family is 10 hours away. So it has been just hubby me and the kids for years.
Murf will come do the holiday thing here with hubby at the house. Then we go to Murf's family for more festivities with him hubby doesn't go. Hubby usually has to work most holidays anyway. Murf is mono and we are not out to his family.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.