new to poly, lets see were it takes me
so this will likley be one of many blogs, yes my grammer sucks, yes I make up words as I go along so spell check is moot in my case. How bout I start by telling you that no I've not been in a poly relationship yet but as of recent my fiance and I of 7 years and three kids later have decided yes, yes we do want to try this. For us we arnt looking for multiple partner we are looking to bring another woman into our relationship. A closed triad I believe you would call it correct me if I am wrong. Now we have found a girl whos interested, who knew it would happwn so fast? So far we've just been texting and getting to know one another all three of us.
But with the mess that is currently our life we are waiting to meet her because we are packing and moving at the end of the month, were in therapy lol ill go into that another time.
I have so many questions about the lifestyle like how will we work past jelousy is this something we work on together or individually? How if this goes serious do we explain it to our children and who will this person become to our children? What are great ways to make sure we will all feel equal like everyones needs are met? And if there's anyone here who has been in a long term closed triad could you tell me what are the things that have made a successful relationship for you?