Originally Posted by Amnati
This way I am not exerting any attempts to control her, I am not invading her space and I am left alone to deal with my crap that is obviously bothering her so much.
Dag is right, this is just passive aggressive retaliation.
I encourage you to move away from taking action based on hurt feelings and confusion. Actions should come from your understanding of the details of the situation at hand and the intention to bring about constructive resolution. Anything else is just going to cause more wreckage.