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Old 07-15-2013, 02:42 PM
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Well why don't you come out to your friends and see what they say? Not come on to them, just come out to them.

The chances of you, as a couple, establishing a romantic sexual relationship with both members of another couple are slim to none. Heck, the chances of you, as a couple, establishing a romantic sexual relationship with one person "to share" are also slim to none.

Bringing another person into "our bed" is a common but misguided impulse in poly noobs. Most experienced poly people, coupled or not, date and fuck separately.

Probably not what you wanted to hear, but it's the truth.
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