I had a discussion with Vanilla yesterday about what is our poly ideal. Hers is a triad or a vee with her as the hinge, with one man and one woman as co-primaries, and two or three more casual relationships.
I had trouble imagining my dream poly situation. I think I'm living it. I'm becoming more and more comfortable with focusing on relationships instead of relationship structures.
I'm not completely poly saturated though. There's this one girl I'm going to see tomorrow who seriously interests me. She doesn't know I'm poly; heck, I suspect she doesn't even know of poly. But a girl can dream, right?
And I'm feeling a lot better about the texting. It's a habit, and like habits, can be unlearned.
Me: bi female in my twenties