Originally Posted by bewithus
We are a happily married couple seeking a third women to join us. We hope to keep it a long term thing
We have never done this before on line so its kind of nerve wracking LOL We are having trouble finding some one to join us and was hoping on here, some one could find us or help us find some one
Again, since you asked for help, it's no wonder the "third" you are looking for seems elusive. Very few women want to be a "third" for a couple to "share." Most poly people date as individuals. That is much much easier. Attempting to share another human being, like she is a pizza, rarely works.
Please read this
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
"Master," (mono, 36), miss pixi's Dom for 3 years