Well, since the OP started this thread back in Nov. '12, never made any other posts, and hasn't been back since, I doubt she'll come back to answer your questions or give an update. But I do hope things worked out for her since then!
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
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