Exactly! I don't follow Crux to miners conferences for two reasons. 1) I openly admit the bore the living crap outta me and 2) he gets nervous if I'm there cause he want to impress or some crap like that. That's his thing. We have things together and apart. Your mans woman is his thing, not your at all. Therefore, you are fully in your rights to "butt out" at your discretion.
It's just me, my ramblings and the elevator music in my head.
Me: bi, reformed wild-child turned mom and house maid LOL
Crux: straight/hypersexual, possibly mono?
BC: our son, 5 years
CM: second son 9 months.
Mouse: girlfriend! Status new, feelings not so much.