I like to turn things over in my mind a few times and bounce it off my husband, who does tend to do the "guy thing" and tune it out once it has been discussed. maybe it seems obsessive, but i think it is the "gal thing" to do. It's more about hearing myself say something out loud and making sure it makes sense from more than one angle.
Men need to accept that women are this way, and women need to accept that men are this way, and each needs to meet the other half-way.
(I take the liberty of making those sweeping generalizations within the context of this particular discussion. I do not mean to suggest that "all women" and "all men" are a "certain way".)
Last edited by NeonKaos; 06-24-2009 at 04:59 PM.