Still processing how I feel about it. She's probably right. But it's really hard to just turn off the desire. Impossible? No. I've done it before. Just don't want the back and forth anymore.
franchescasc-33, bi female, likely monogomish formerly in triad relationship with:
FJ-36, married 15 yrs
MD-35, gf for 8 months
Currently dating SM, male, 40, monogamous