That would be an asset in most posts tho!
But seriously, you're being hampered by this activity as well and it doesn't make for a smooth and loving environment even when she's not around. She is putting stress on you through him and he should be willingly thinking of how you are affected too.
It's just me, my ramblings and the elevator music in my head.
Me: bi, reformed wild-child turned mom and house maid LOL
Crux: straight/hypersexual, possibly mono?
BC: our son, 5 years
CM: second son 9 months.
Mouse: girlfriend! Status new, feelings not so much.