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Old 07-11-2013, 08:12 PM
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I think you are completely justified in wanting this crazy lady away from you. I think that the only thing you can do right now is set firm boundaries about socialising with her and him discussing their relationship with you, so you don't have to deal with her. He obviously likes this kind of crazy, and calling a veto will be a bad move. However, if the boundary thing doesn't work, you can absolutely reasonably say that you cannot have this affecting your life and can no longer allow yourself to be subjected to this drama and say that you will have to remove yourself from the situation if it is set to continue. That is effectively a veto, an ultimatum, but you shouldn't have to put up with this. Make that your last straw and try putting in strict boundaries about her sharing physical and/or emotional space with you.
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