Mmmothra- you came to this forum to ask advice, did you not?
I am sorry to have to define the word "advice" for you.
Advice (also called exhortation) is a form of relating personal or institutional opinions, belief systems, values, recommendations or guidance about certain situations relayed in some context to another person, group or party often offered as a guide to action and/or conduct.
What was that word? Opinion.
In postin to a forum like this you are bound to run into opinions that are different to yours. The best you can do is try to see where they are coming from. If you don't get that then simply ask them to define why they went that way. Had you not been so quick to draw straws, I'm sure London and BG would have drawn it out for you. They are reasonable peeps.
Snooping is a delicate subject. But the trust is still the biggest factor. You snooped because, potentially, you faltered in complete truth for a moment.
It's just me, my ramblings and the elevator music in my head.
Me: bi, reformed wild-child turned mom and house maid LOL
Crux: straight/hypersexual, possibly mono?
BC: our son, 5 years
CM: second son 9 months.
Mouse: girlfriend! Status new, feelings not so much.
Last edited by Malfunktions; 07-11-2013 at 07:57 PM.