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Old 07-11-2013, 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted by BlackUnicorn View Post
So I met Vanilla yesterday and she said that although she enjoys my company she would wish that I don't text her all the time. It's a small request but it hurt me badly. I just want her to know I think about her during the day.
I don't particularly like to get texts all day either. It's distracting and then, I feel obligated to respond... Pick a time and then text her once about the same time each day instead of random texts all day.

BU, I am really wondering why you went back to Vanilla. In addition to having BPD, wasn't she quite abusive to you? Don't you think you can meet new people, more loving and nurturing people, to have in your life?
Then again, a little more distance may not be so bad.
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