Originally Posted by bookworm
I feel like I'm being selfish because I have both him and Bob and he has to be alone when I'm out with Bob.
Why is he sitting home alone when you are out? Doesn't he have friends? Hobbies? Any classes he'd like to take? Fun stuff happening where you live? He doesn't have to get a gf or bf just to stay occupied and have a rich life when you're not there.