Originally Posted by BoringGuy
The bolded parts are the two key points. So many times people get their pants in a twist because they perceive this as "group-think". It is in fact the OPPOSITE of "group-think" - it's "self-think". It isn't about how the world perceives you, it's about how you perceive the world around you, and inside your head.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
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miss pixi, F, 38
Punk, 42, M (dating since Oct 2015)
and a few more casual relationships