Originally Posted by Natja
it seriously sucks when you have chemistry with someone and the kabosh for whatever reason.
And it can happen after 10 days and 2 dates. Took me 3 years to get over one such encounter.
The brain / biochemistry thing works in mysterious ways and is very powerful. It's not that easy to simply make it 'go away' through logical reasoning or force of will either.
If it was I guess there wouldn't have had so many novels / operas / plays / movies exploring the theme.