I get being disappointed, the crying might seem extreme but it seriously sucks when you have chemistry with someone and the kabosh for whatever reason.
I had a series of disastrous OKC dates a couple of years back, happy to only see those guys once! Only to finally catch up with one half of a couple I hd seen around the place for a few years, finally some chemistry....
Only to find out they would only accept a Unicorn, it was their only purpose in Poly. That was vexing to a the least.