Originally Posted by AnotherConfused
I can't even seem to get any kind of sex at home these days. There's something very sad about trying to have sex with my husband and failing!.
None at all? When was the last time you had sexy time? If not actual fucking, at least arousal and orgasms on both sides?
And how often do you and C get to meet and get it on? I am just wondering how bad it's getting for you!
You 2 might try a different therapist, you know. Heck, even a Christian counselor would recommend regular sex for the health of the marriage bond. I know I've had female Christian friends who were told by pastoral counseling it was their Christian duty to have sex with their horny Christian husbands... but maybe Christians don't care if it's the woman with the higher libido!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
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