To be honest, after I separated from my ex, I didnt quite screw anything that moved, I was picky, but I did date a lot and probably had some kind of sex, fingers, oral, or intercourse, with about 15 guys and one woman.
This was mostly in 2009 and 2010. Things slowed down after that... I did need to sow some wild oats after a 30 year mono marriage.
I used condoms for PIV sex but didnt use them for oral. Just my choice. I assessed the risks and made the decision and was tested for STIs regularly, and was fine.
I'm sorry you're not comfortable hearing sexual details of your partner. Myself, I enjoy them!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
"Master," (mono, 36), miss pixi's Dom for 3 years