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Old 07-09-2013, 05:01 PM
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Anneintherain Anneintherain is offline
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I'd stop trying to change your husband to be what you want and accept what he does offer sexually, and take it or leave it. If he doesn't want to change actively, its a waste of time to push for that. Comparing sexual dynamics between partners is a lose-lose situation.

That said David Schnarch has a lot of good books about the subject, I own a few of them.
Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have.
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