Hi, Flowerchild. Good questions.
I definitely didn't tell him anything about the crazyland stuff I was imagining.
Agree that that would make most people run for the hills. They were just what-if's, best-case scenario fantasies that I knew were unlikely.
He was actually much more open about being really excited about me which I think is one reason I fell so hard. Most guys are socially conditioned to try to hide their emotions (in my experience), but he was so open.
I'm sure it was his wife. He was sooo upset when he told me last night, and no one is that good of an actor. I really feel for him. He has no power or control in his life, but doesn't want to divorce and do that to his kids. Think he needs to find his balls and regain some power in his life.