My ex is an intj, to a t. I was surprised to see our personality types are compatible but I guess we lasted 11 years so that must mean something lol you would think 2 people who always think they are right and rigid in their views would be a recipe for disaster. Guess its like "when a tornado meets a volcano" he was incredibly emotionally unavailable, almost like a robot. My need for positive attention was never satisfied from him. I.still love him, he's an amazing guy but not for me.
done with poly, the end.