well, my husband suggested poly / open relationships for the first time about 11 (eleven) ELEVEN!!!! years ago.
I told him he was out of his mind.
so yeah... that's what I mean about being patient.
early forties, straight.
the guys: Ren - husband; Curlz - bf of 2 years, Brig - bf of 7 months; Knight - non-sexual bf; MrBrown - it's complicated
Ren's girls: Lou - gf of 2 years, Liz - very new gf