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Old 07-08-2013, 06:55 PM
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Basically it sounds like your husband is ok with poly if he gets a new play thing. Not a good path to start down.

For example when I started seeing other men.. my husband tried to basically blackmail me into partaking in BDSM with him. Which honestly made me feel dirty and nasty. "If I let you see so and so then you will do y for me." I shudder at the memory.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.

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