Originally Posted by BrigidsDaughter
but I really don't believe that it's ever possible to put the poly genie back in the bottle. Once you've known multiple love, you can never go back to being mono, thinking mono, etc.
I've seen far too many people switch back from one to the other. It's certainly possible, because it happens. And a lot of folks never look back.
In this particular thread, obviously someone's going to crack, eventually. Probably Matt or the OP, based on how they handle conflict. Si just has to sit back and wait for it.