Originally Posted by Magdlyn
There is no need for you to force yourself to fall in love with, or have sex with, this wife, if it's really only the husband you desire sexually. She does not NEED to be present when you and the h have sex... that is just something she thinks will reduce her jealousy. It won't! It will just be bad sex, if you 2 women are straight.
Force = definitely bad news. Experiment to find out if it might be something for all of you - why not? As long as all the consenting adults are participating willingly then it might be fun.
Who knows? She might get turned on watching and you might like being watched. Stranger things have happened
Seriously though, doing things just to keep other people happy is a guaranteed recipe for disaster.